How to Ask for Help

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Hi this is Dr. Fab Mancini and I’m so excited that you’ve joined us, because I love this new season. I am gonna do a topic that you give me. Not one that I create on my own or that my team helps me, I’m only doing topics that you’re sending to me. This one actually comes from Jeannie, she lives in Manhattan, New York. And Jeannie writes to me, “Dr. Fab, how do I ask for help?”

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Summary:
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1. Know that others want to help you.
2. Put your ego aside.
3. Accept help when it comes.

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Hi this is Dr. Fab Mancini and I’m so excited that you’ve joined us, because I love this new season.

I am gonna do a topic that you give me.

Not one that I create on my own or that my team helps me, I’m only doing topics that you’re sending to me.

This one actually comes from Jeannie, she lives in Manhattan, New York.

And Jeannie writes to me, “Dr. Fab, how do I ask for help?”

I know that most of us like to do for others, very few of us ever ask for help.

And I want you to know that it’s just as important when you do for others that when you ask for help.

So let me tell you what happened to me. I was going through a difficult time a couple years ago and I had this friend of many that I had helped three years before, and I helped them through a very difficult situation.

This individual came to my rescue and said, “Hey Fab, I can help you.”

And you know what I said? “Hey, no, man, it’s okay. I don’t need any help.” You know what he said to me?

“Remember three years ago when you helped me? This is what happened.” And I said, “Yeah, but it was my honor. It was my pleasure.”

He said, “Then why are you trying to rob me from helping you?”

Don’t rob other people from helping you.

Just the same joy and excitement you get from helping others, let them get the same satisfaction.

So let me give you three things of how to ask for help.

The first one is know that others want to help you.

Just know that in your heart.

Everyone around you wants to help you.

In fact, I have a mantra that says that God has put everyone in my path in order to help me accomplish my mission in life.

Everyone around you wants to help you.

The second thing is put your ego aside.

What keeps us from sometimes asking for help or even receiving help is our ego.

Don’t make it about your ego.

Put your ego aside and accept the help.

Embrace the help.

And the last one is, accept it when it comes.

See, many times the help is coming to us all the time but we keep rejecting it, we keep pushing it away.

Accept it.

Just open your arms and say thank you.

Yes, I need it.

Yes, thank you.

I want it. I appreciate it.

Whatever you have to say.

I hope you’ve enjoyed these three tips and I can’t wait to see you on the next show.

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